LEARN WHAT IS GOD’S GRACE AND TIPS ON LIVING A LIFE OF GRACE
What is God’s grace? For someone who is not a Christian, that’s a big question. The truth is, for someone that is a Christian… that’s a BIG question!
Everyone throws around the word grace. Kind of like how we throw around the word love, or hope, or blessed. But do we actually know what it means?
The reality is this: Grace is at the very heart of the gospel. That’s a really big deal, and that’s why it’s so important that we are understanding the grace of God.
As Christians, we need to ask ourselves: What does it mean to have grace?
And when our non-Christian friends ask us what the grace of God can do, we need to be prepared to give an answer. That answer is the reason for our hope. The Bible tells us this: “but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect.” – 1st Peter 3:15, ESV.
God’s grace and mercy is huge, and it’s difficult for a normal, average person like myself to understand. Perhaps you feel the same way.
Let’s start to understand and define God’s grace.
What Is God’s Grace
The Hebrew word for grace is “gras.” According to this article from ancient-hebrew.org, the word ‘gras’ is shown to mean “precious, beauty, a camp of protection.”
The definition of biblical grace is essentially God’s favor granted to the unworthy. This grace is freely given to us, in the form of salvation. As sinners, it’s not something we deserve…. But God gives us grace anyway. Grace is unmerited favor (unmerited definition: not deserved).
I have to take a moment to be honest, here. There was a time in my life, where I didn’t really grasp the scope of God’s grace. I thought that I was a decent person, and that I wasn’t in need of much help. But then… I had kids.
And I soon realized (pretty much instantly) that the world was bigger than I thought. My sin reached deeper than I thought, and I knew I was in desperate need of the grace of God. I needed that unmerited favor.
What’s the difference – Grace vs. Mercy
People often ask what is God’s grace, and they will wonder at the same time, what is God’s mercy?
Grace and mercy confuse people, and we then wonder what the difference is for grace vs. mercy. We’ve already defined grace, so let’s look at mercy.
Mercy is the act of showing forgiveness or compassion to someone, despite having power to punish that person.
So, while grace and mercy are both beautiful concepts, they are different.
Understanding the Grace of God
To fully understand the grace of God, we really need to first understand why we need God’s grace. For all have sinned and come short of the glory of God (Roman 3:23). This implies that we are all sinners, and if we are all sinners, the Bible also tells us that the wages of sin is death (Romans 6:23). Hence, the penalty for our sin is death. There is hope though, as even though we don’t deserve it God offered his son as a sacrifice that through him we may have life (John 3:16).
Like I said above, I didn’t always see the full need for God’s grace. What I didn’t realize at the time, was that I was living my life for myself. In a way, I had become my own God. I was seeking success, pleasure, comfort and ease. And the embarrassing thing is… at that time, I thought I could achieve any of those things by my own power.
God has a way of keeping us humble, though, and for me, it was becoming a mother. I had prepared for that baby in every way possible. I thought I knew exactly how to care for him, keep him healthy, and be a super-mom.
The reality, though, was a bit crushing for me as a young mom. My child was always sick. I couldn’t produce enough breast milk to feed him because of an undiagnosed thyroid condition. He was allergic to nearly every formula.
I was brought low. My sister-in-law had a baby at the same time. She had an abundance of breast milk, and she would pump after every time she fed her baby, and she would deliver bottles to us so that I could feed my son. I would then take that begged and borrowed breast milk and feed it to my son with the help of a tube.
I could cry right now just thinking about those days. It became glaringly apparent that I was not the God of my own universe, and ultimately, I had no control.
My sister-in-law was a perfect picture of grace for me at that time. I didn’t deserve her help, and I had no way to repay her for the amazing gift she had given me… but she gave that gift anyway.
I can see now that God blessed me through that struggle. He opened my eyes to the fact that I didn’t have it all together, and that I was a desperate sinner for ever thinking that I did.
The good news is this:
“But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ- by grace you have been saved- and raised up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, so that in the coming ages he might show the immeasurable riches of his grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus.” – Ephesians 2:4-7 ESV.
While we were dead in our trespasses (yes- me and you!), Christ died for us. By grace we have been saved.
So, what does it mean to have grace through Christ? Unmerited favor.
What The Grace of God Can Do
The grace of God can do so much. The grace of God has completely turned my life upside down, and it can do the same for you.
One of my favorite passages in the Bible comes from 2nd Corinthians 12:9 ESV. It says, “But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore, I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.”
I remember posting this scripture to my Instagram with a photo of my 3, sweet kids. It was after a particularly exhausting day. It was one of those days where I was reminded of my weakness, but comforted by the fact that God’s glory and grace was at work.
Our weaknesses display God’s power. And that’s kind of the point. We need to live lives that glorify God and put his grace on display.
Another verse that speaks to grace displaying God’s glory is John 1:14 ESV: “And the word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we have seen his glory, glory as the only son from the Father, full of grace and truth.”
No gift from God can be apart from his glory.
Living a Life of Grace
To know how we should go about living a life of grace (a life that reflects God’s grace), we need to go again to scripture.
“But by the grace of God, I am what I am, and his grace toward me was not in vain. On the contrary, I worked harder that any of them, though it was not I, but the grace of God that is with me.” – 1stCorinthians 15:10 ESV.
Living a life of grace means that we live with an understanding of what Christ has done for us. We don’t just slip vacantly into the lovely thought that his grace covers all.
This is where we need to dig in, and be intentional. This is where we need to get our priorities in order. This is where our prayer life and missional mindset need to kick into high gear.
If we’ve answered the question “What is God’s grace?”, and if we have an understanding of God’s grace, then we need to follow Paul’s example in the passage above.
We need to ensure that we did not receive his grace in vain. By the grace of God, we need to work at our faith.
So how can we live a life of grace?
- Share what God has done for you
- Become aware of God in your every day. Seek him out in every moment and circumstance. See his hand at work in your life.
- In thankfulness for his grace, live a life of obedience and joy
- Step out in faith.
- Extend grace to the people around you. Show them unmerited favor. Love like Christ loved you.
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