Let’s get real for a moment.
What would your life look like if you truly believed you were royalty? Believed Who I am in Christ?
Back in the day, I was a slim chick. I am sure lots of girls wished they had my physique, but I didn’t. I did everything I could to gain weight. Yeah, quite the opposite of what most people aspire to do. You see, while I was the perfect size zero. I didn’t have what they termed in the Caribbean as the perfect “coca cola bottle shape” Shapely and curvy in all the right places.
The shape that I thought would make me desirable to men.
Google became my best friend. The darn-est thing you can think of I likely Googled it in an effort to fit into society’s mold of what beauty looks like.
After much trial and error, I did manage to attain my goal though. Whoop Whoop for attaining goals!
I got the stares, and of course a whole bunch of pickup lines. But, I quickly realized how much time and energy it took to maintain my newly found physique and of course how exhausting it was. As I got older it became increasingly difficult to maintain and Proverbs 31:30 had greater significance. “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.”
Where am I going with this? It might not be your body image, but we all have a story.
For many of us, we place our identity in labels, in our careers or in our relationships. Do you know what the common theme is? They can all be stripped away in the twinkle of an eye.
Who better to place our identity in than one who never changes, the one who loves us unconditional? Beauty fades but there is one who never changes that we can hold on to. This week on the blog we will be deep diving into Who I am in Christ. Find practical tips to help you embrace your identity in Christ.
This post may contain affiliate links. You can read my full affiliate disclosure here.
What Does Who I Am In Christ Mean?
Do you now who you are in Christ? Its a term that gets thrown around a whole lot! The term identity in Christ ultimately means embracing who the master designer God has created you to be. Instead of listening to society’s norms which change, embracing your identity in Christ involves holding on to the truths about who he says you are, he created you after all in his own image. We are daughters of a king and there is nothing anyone can do or say to change that.Here are 3 practical ways to start viewing yourself the way God sees you and walking in confidence as a daughter of a king.
1. Study What the Bible Says About Who You Are In Christ
Do you feel like you don’t quite measure up?
You’re not pretty enough
You’re not smart enough
You’re not good enough
Throughout the day, we are constantly bombarding ourselves with negativity that we don’t quite measure up.
How about changing the channel? Instead of listening to the same bombarding messages over and over again, why not tune in to the word of God for positive reinforcing messages of your worth.
Here are some of my favorite Bible verses on identity in Christ that reminds me of who I am in Christ.
You are special…..Ephesians 2:10
You are are created with a purpose……..Jeremiah 29:11
You are fearfully and wonderfully made………Psalms 139: 14
You are a work in progress….Philippians 1:6
You are loved……John 3:16
You are royalty…… 1 Peter 2:9
Looking for even more verses? Here are 20 encouraging verses about Who I am in Christ.
2. Be Rooted In Who You Are In Christ
Its easy to acknowledge that we are fearfully and wonderfully made, but do we actually believe it? I would encourage you to commit some of the above versions to memory and daily say these affirmations until they become a part of you. Write them in your daily journal, put the verses on sticky notes, make bible verse photo frames or even make them into a phone wallpaper. Be as creative as you would like.
Go forth and walk in confidence as the beautiful princess that you are!
3. Read Books About Who You Are In Christ
No man is an island, we are all ultimately better together. Why not learn from others who have been down the same path that you are struggling through at this moment?
Here are two newly released who I am in Christ books on embracing your identity in Christ that you can consider adding to your reading list.
Claim Your Crown: Walking in Confidence and Worth as a Daughter of the King
I first corresponded with Tarah-Lynn when she first guest posted on the blog on How to Dress Modest But Still Look Cute. Tarah is a Teen Vogue fashion writer so figured she would be the perfect candidate to shed some light on being fashionable yet still modest. So when she mentioned her book, Claim Your Crown, I was really excited to dig in.
Miss Black New Jersey Tarah-Lynn Saint Elien uses her experience as a beauty queen to make the parallel for young women on finding and embracing their identity in Christ.Using a conversational tone and modern examples which young women can relate to, really helped to illustrate her points and drive home the message.
Each chapter ends with reflection questions which I found rather helpful in deep diving and journaling on embracing who I am in Christ. I walked away with a renewed desire to not lose my identity in Christ by trying to measure up to the worlds standards. Ultimately I am a princess, a child of God and there is nothing anyone can do or say to change that. I think this book is a good starting point for teens or women in their early twenties to begin exploring the subject of who they are in Christ.
You can also read the 7 day devotional of Claim Your Crown on the YouVersion Bible App or pickup a copy of Claim Your Crown to discover a new way to appreciate and love yourself and walk in confidence as a daughter of a king.
A Different Kind of Love Story
If you are struggling with insecurity, this book is for you. Landra shares her testimony of her own personal struggles of navigating through an eating disorder brought on by her family being placed under intense media spotlight. Her dad is a famous pastor of a mega church in the United States.
Throughout the book, Landra is pretty open and honest about her struggles and the lies that she told her family and friends as she tried to cope with feeling like she didn’t measure up. Her honesty and willingness to be authentic, made me feel as though I was talking to my best friend at a coffee shop.
Throughout her book, she reminds us that we are often our own mean girls inflicting pain; telling ourselves that we are not pretty enough or smart enough and the list goes on and on. The author reminds us that instead of holding on to the negative thoughts that take control of our lives, a better approach is to redirect them and instead focus on the truths of what God says about you.
Even if you have not struggled with an eating disorder, the message that we need not let society define who we are was very profound. Instead of focusing on how others view us, we should seek to be defined instead by the master creator himself. This was an easy and encouraging read reminding us that we are loved, and not too far gone to receive God’s love.
She is currently at a place of contentment with herself and shares with readers practical steps that got her to this point. One being to seek community, we are all better together and can better navigate through our struggles together than alone.
You read can also read the 7 day devotional of A Different Kind of Love Story on the YouVersion Bible App or pickup a copy of A Different Love Story to discover a greater love and appreciation for yourself, in light of the word of God.
Next Steps: Who I am in Christ
Are you marginalized by insecurity? Discover how God’s words can transform you into a woman of confidence in this self-paced Bible Study on Choosing Confidence.
How are you embracing your identity in Christ daily?
OTHERS ARTICLES LIKE THIS YOU MAY LIKE: