When Life Doesn’t Match Your Dreams


Life is filled with lots of twists and turns. When Life Doesn’t Match Your Dreams by Jill Eileen Smith walks us through several women of the old testament. Bringing to life several lessons on trusting God when life doesn’t quite turn out as planned that we can apply to our daily lives as women.

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Married by 25 , kids and a house by 30, how often have you said this to your girlfriends? However life doesn’t always turn out the way we envisioned. That dream job we hoped to land or that guy we hoped to marry doesn’t become reality.  Through the lens of 12 women of the Bible, Jill Smith takes the reader on a journey of finding hope When Life Doesn’t Match your dreams.

The twelve women she looked at were: Eve, Noah’s wife, Sarai, Hagar, Lot’s wife, Rebekah, Rachel, Leah, Dinah, Potiphar’s Wife , Tamar and Zipporah. Through the eyes of these ancient women, Jill opens up each chapter with a fictional story of what life may have looked like in these women’s shoes. As readers, we step away realizing that these were real women, with real lives who too experienced struggles and insecurities which many of us face today.

Have you ever wondered what Eve may have felt after eating the forbidden fruit or worse yet when her own flesh and blood killed his own brother? Or perhaps even Noah’s wife and how she felt during Noah’s Ark building venture? While not fully factual, the author helps us to imagine what these 12 women thoughts and reactions may have been like in their given circumstances. She also includes in each chapter stories from her own life to help bring across key points.

One strong takeaway for me from this book is that even though life doesn’t always match our dreams, we can depend on God not to forsake us. He is right there with us through our mess and trials, molding us for the divine purpose he has for our lives. If only we would trust him and let him lead. Whatever we give up to God has the potential to grow to greater heights than we ever imagined.

For those looking to do a Bible Study on Women of the Bible, I think this would make a great personal or group study accompaniment. It does include discussion questions at the end of each chapter which would be great for personal reflection or group discussions.



This would make a great personal or group accompaniment study for those looking to study more on women of the Bible. The book Women of the Bible would also make a great devotional guide.


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